Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Friends?

Wow!

You think you know people and it turns out that you don't know them at all! I have this friend that I have known for aeons, someone I thought I knew and would never do anything to harm me but boy was I wrong.

This blog has been quite cathartic for me, in that, I come here to vent when irritated and/or pissed off.

About this friend, is there not an unspoken rule between friends that information shared should be held at the highest level of confidence, no matter how trivial?! I know about this rule but evidently my friend doesn't!

I shared something very personal with her and she betrayed me.

The content of the information is not life-threatening or earth-shattering but it is the principle, especially when I specifically told this woman not to share with anyone else.

How could she?

I have spent the past few nights wondering about my relationship with her and thinking if she means to hurt me or if she is just clueless; but I am leaning more towards a subconscious hatred, jealousy, envy...I could go on, that she may not even be aware of. With this recent happening, I have searched through my memory bank and recognized various many instances that she has inflicted damage and I never thought anything of it, oh! silly me! Well better late than never! I know now and it stops here!

Too bad, another one bites the dust! Lesson learned!

7 comments:

BOBBY said...

I tell you! some women are horrible!
Its so darn hard to find that ride or die chick that you can tell anything and that one that will be your dawgress no matter what. Never leaking info, always keeping your secrets your secrets.

Well you said it, i am glad you found out...

I think you should forgive her though...however be careful what you say around her.

Forgive her and free your spirit of any negativity, at least now you know the kind of person she is.

Lolita said...

You know what Bobby, you are right! I have forgiven her but I never let a snake bite me twice...it will never be the same.

Anonymous said...

well dats friend for ya...

Anonymous said...

Sweetheart that's life, i found out the hard way just like you are finding out. You either confront her or shrug it off as a mistake but if it happens more that once then u have a decision to make no matter how hard it is.

Uzo said...

Oh dear/....

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

Life is hard, isn't it? Na wa oh! I haven't been here in a while.

Do update soon!

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

Wow, you haven't been here in ages... Hope all is well.